To be clear, too. I wasn’t cheating. I had a private discussion which I admitted went too far with silly jokes that I should have ended sooner. If I admitted already that I was in the wrong, why should have I put myself in the position to create useless discussions when the conclusion was already made? I established clear boundaries for what was acceptable in that situation and grabbing my phone forcefully was not. Since that incident my husband understand I was not cheating and he had not reason to be suspicious. Also, my husband has Asperger's which is why, he is not the chatty type so he knows I am filling this need elsewhere. Thanks for the recommded reading but I am not the avoidant here 😊