This is a very interesting perspective, Stephanie. Thanks for bringing it up. I particularly liked this part “Her husband isn’t looking to pleasure her. He’s looking to BE PLEASURED, you know, be reassured that he did a good job, he’s still loved after all, needs, needs, needs. He may as well say ‘thank you’ at the end, or call her Mommy.”

It is very frustrating.

Open marriage is not an option at this point.