Thanks, Thomas! I have a friend who is in the process of breaking up with his decades-long narc girlfriend who always had the upper hand in that relationship leaving and coming back at her convenience leaving my friend wondering if she's ever going to come back. And she did, always in the worst possible moments, when my friend got his life right only to mess with it and leave chaos like she always did. Breaking up with a narc is hard. But when you label it - your relationship, I mean, as abusive, it makes it easier. You start seeing the signs that were always there. So yes, men are abused, too, and we need to acknowledge and start believing them. Sending you a big hug, my friend. You got this, Thomas!