Thanks so much for the follow-up! I would absolutely do like you did if he'd giving me the "out". He told me several times, though that he's waiting for our son to grow up a little so they could spend more time together. In a way I think that a small baby scared him and that's why he sort of decided that the mother (I) would be better off by myself. I have this feeling that he can turn around that's why I stick to it. I'm preparing a new story called "I'm not stupid to leave" which refers to this point extacly. If I managed this far, I won't jeopardize it when he can actually start contributing. If he'll still not do it, in a year from now, then I know what to do. Hugs and thanks again!