Thanks, Patrick! I needed this comment! That’s what I believe, too

I can clearly see that he loves his son, yet, he is overwhelmed — I will stay around to give us time to adjust. All things considered, the first 3 years of a person’s life are crucial for building the foundation of attachment. I want to enable both of them to create a healthy relationship.

But I am only human. At some days I am just too tired to come up with this justifications that would give him the circumstances. Some days I just need a supportive partner to share the child care duties

And when I need him and he’s not there, it makes me feel alone and angry.