Thanks for your time, Butterfly, as well as for the kind words and and your advice.

I have grown very resiliant over time. I am able financially to decide whenever it is going to become to much to separate.

I actually told him that if he doesn’t contribute I am better without him and so he should thank me that I am still in the relationship. Also I remind him whenever he forgets that I have the upper hand so should always think how he can make himself useful, because when he’s no longer meeting the purpose, I am out.

So I am not a victim. I don’t want to leave. If I leave I m doing him a favour. He will not be bothered raising a son. All the difficulties will be on me and he will get go be the fun parent (rested and jolly) when he has the kid over.

He doesn’t deserve it.