Thanks for your comments, Dona, but you are assuming A LOT. As I mentioned I was my neighbor's confidant for years so what I am presenting here are facts, not hypotheses. His ex-wife knew who is the lady his ex-wife had a relationship with. It was not an affair because they were divorced. And he didn't stay with his ex-wife to support her financial. They were business partners and still in a deep co-dependent relationship that never would have ended if she hadn't died (this last part is my hypothesis, the rest are facts). Eva 😊