Thanks for your comment, Marianne! I don’t think he has a problem with porn, per se, but he does have unreasonable expectations from me to be open for, you know, more “advanced dishes” because he might think he’s entitled to. On the other hand, he doesn’t want to put effort into getting me in the mood for receiving such treatment; instead, he expects that if I want to have sex, then I should be the one giving in to his sexual preferences. From what I know him, he’s not obsessed with sex, which is why he can easily refuse me if I’m not willing to do what he likes.