Thanks for the comment. Now read again. Do I say anywhere that this decision is definitive? No. It doesn’t. But it is the best compromise I can make (which is to put the reasoning on top of my feelings) during this timeframe when I need him to contribute as a parent. I will not be around, most probably, when my son will be old enough to understand and be affected by our relationship. At this point though if I am taking him away from his father whom he obviously loves, what does that make me? A better mom, a better person?!