It’s so messed up. I spent the last few years feeling awful about myself. I’m glad you’ve found a way to vent about it, and thank you for writing about it- when I saw the link to your article I clicked on it because it described exactly what I’d experienced, and by the time I finished reading I was surprised to realize how angry I was. At least, I think I was angry. Distressed, maybe? Both, probably. I guess it was because, while learning that someone else had had…