Thanks for sharing, MH! We jointly contributed to buying a kind size bed, but it didn't work out. He likes watching tv or youtube video before sleep, I like to avoid blue light before sleep. He snores and even though I proposed he has this checked and under control for his own good, he didn’t bother. I don't want to lecture, or over insist on some matters where he should decide for himself, so my approach was the one I described here. For all it's worth, it allowed us to survive into the marrige many years.