Thanks for sharing, Liam! My husband is close to how you would describe yourself. And that's the issue. You are not bad people that women would want to leave but there's something missing in the relationship, a gap, that by some women is filled with infidelity, while keeping things clean and separated. Would you have cared if you wouldn't have known? I am glad you are in a good place right now. Sorry about your children. Maybe that's why your wife didn't want to leave in the first place...how did you find out about her infidelity?