Thank you, Witt, for your heartfelt comment. Also, I am glad that you're enjoying this approach for your sex life. I feel though I should clarify my take on the subject. The angle from which I'm presenting said sexual activities regard women who accept opening to other sexual partners by being encouraged by their male partners and who accept out of a sense of duty but they would rather prefer not. That is a sign of lacking intimacy in the couple, at least in my books. I might be off with my observations, however, what I am writing is not advice is merely an angle that could be at the most dismissed as biased and highly subjective - which I can agree with easily :-)