Thank you, Peder, for your thoughts on this topic. I am sorry your mother's behaviour affected you and your brother. I can assure you I don't just give homeworks to men with my writing. I wrote a piece "One Month, No Sex" that covers what women should do in relationships to mend them. I invite you to read more stories I wrote to see several angles of me and then you'll understand better where I am coming from on relationship advice.