Thank you, dear Shaema for sharing your story. You're a strong woman! My mom is much better now. She has me and her grandson and a lot of love from us. Therapy helped me understand that she did exactly what she could with the little she had, so I forgave my child-parent and now I allow her to re-parent me by accepting her help to assist me, whenever I need it. It's wonderful how very bad life events can make us better people.