Sounds really exciting, Dipas, and you were lucky both you and your wife were on the same page in terms of CNM. My husband is slightly more traditional. I indirectly discussed the topic with him a while back, as my best friend and her husband had a one-week vacation at a swingers resort, and he rolled his eyes. Honestly, I am not interested in being with someone else - I get enough action at home. I lack the emotional part, as my husband is more like my partner than my friend - if you know what I mean.