Ok. I didn't want to be harsh or mean in any way but since you act like you know me so well, let's be more familiar. I don't mind being called a cheater. I am. But my situation is very different from yours and it wouldn't be a bad idea to get your head out of the ass and realize that my story is not your story. My AP is not married and he knows what he signed up for. For all I care, everyone is happy with the statusqvo here.