Not sure, it's been three years since then and we lost our connection mainly because she moved over and because my life started getting busy as a new mom. Several times when we met she said it was "fine". She was still accommodating through the things and the place that used to belong to his late ex-wife. He was not so charming anymore when they were spending 24/7 together but it was better than being alone she said. The gambler's fallacy, maybe - being afraid to call it quits due to the massive investment you made.