My heart goes with you! I am terribly sorry to hear this about you! I do appreciate your advice, I really do, but even if there are common elements in our stories the men are not exactly the same. I’m saying this as I see change. It’s tiny, but consistent. And it’s also in my responsibility to educate him to treat md differently. It takes a lot of effort, and sometimes I get tired, but my son loves him and I wouldn’t take him away from him, just for my own sake.