It is true. And it is presented, obviously, with humour. We cannot take ourselves so seriously all the time. This doesn't mean it's not a sserious topic. I am responsible at all levels trying to minimize impact for everyone. Yeah, it would probably be simpler to get a divorce and openly take care of my needs. Who would this serve? My husband doesn't have much to complain about. We go by his needs, wishes and preferences in this family. You have no idea how many things I had to compromise to keep the family intact. And I will still do it, but this time, by taking care of my needs too. Please read this unapologetically.