I see where you're coming from on this; Thomas and I can understand that. The idfference is however, that you are probably in a neurotypical relationship. You could have offered that emotional connection to your wife but she choose to get it from other place. If for instance, I would't be able to provide something to my husband that he would need, I wouldn't mind him getting it somewhere else. I think it also depends on our personal limits and values, etc. Lovely to read your thoughts on relationship topics like always. Take care!