I like that you ask specific questions. I will respond below.
1. Multiple times.
2. He doesn't consider we had or have issues. He just waits for me to get over my resentment, disappointment and usually that happens whenever my hormones take over and we have sex. Then we get a ttemporary relief from our issues but it doesn't solve the underlying problems.
3. I ask him multiple times to get into therapy. I am in therapy for several years. He refuses it.
4. I have not. I am not responsible for his growth.
5. That will not happen. Life is too short and I cannot dely enjoying life on these kind of milestones.
6. He is not married.
7. Of course.