I hear you, Thomas! Thanks for reading me and thanks for taking the time to share your experience and your feelings.

I believe you had a lot of tolerance for this so-called quirks. Unfortunately, if you don't have anything to compare with, we're all prone to Plato's "Allegory of the Cave". Experience - good or bad, makes us wiser. I'm sure you wouldn't be that tolerant if you'd met a woman now who would behave the same. Yet, we're all made of shades, and that's what makes us interesting. My question to you is, would you still be with her if she had't asked for divorce? Love, Eva.