I appreciate taking the time to respond, Mark. I am sorry you went through this experience with your former wife. My husband cannot complain about the quality but rather its frequency or length. He would be better off without any penetrative sex and if I indulge him we end up having an unsatisfactory ratio for me — every fucking time. E.g., give oral sex for 7+ minutes and enjoy penetration for 3 minutes max, because of the oral sex he just received. Also, he enjoys giving it, in return, but again, I like it but don’t enjoy it as I did in my youth. Now, it merely represents foreplay and not the act itself. Here’s where we collide.