Hi, William — thanks for reading and engaging. In my opinion, and I think I might speak to many, men like you are a special breed. The emphasis I’m making in this story is not on how worthy or not the men are to receive oral sex. The point is that as we go through life, priorities change. Men should understand that they are not entitled. Sex is not a weapon; however, it is not a given either. For women to get in the mood, pulling weight in the relationship, as you describe you do, might be a good start for their husband to experience more of what they want. It’s a balancing act in the end — not resentment.