Hi, Lakeshia! Thanks for reading and leaving a comment! I imagine how hard it is and all the second thoughts. It's normal to be anxious about it, but at the same time, if you made the step to hire a lawyer, your mental process was elaborate enough to bring you at this point. What you are getting are not "signs" but the result of overthinking it and the normal what-ifs. My best friend told me that if I still think about getting a divorce after the storm in gone, and I am in a calm and collected state, then the answer is get a divorce. If on the other hand, I am doubting my intention after I calm down, and I see us getting through this, then maybe divorce is not the answer. My heart goes with you. I hope you’ll land the answer that is right for you, soon!