Hi, Julie! Thanks for your comment and taking the time, but I am not exactly sure what is the advice here. To be grateful I have a family. I am. What are you insinuating otherwise? Please be more concise. And when it comes to your story, I agree, it's sad. At the same time, you decided who you wanted to live your life only it didn't turn out as expected. You are 50, or in your 50s. Life is not over. You have still plenty of opportunities to enrich your life even if you don't have kids. Anyway, you do you. This is just another angle.