Hey there. I am in therapy. I will leave this relationship at the right time. Now it's not the right time. We compromise. He knows I talk with this man. He knows we're friends. And no, I don't talk with this man anything concerning my marriage. I don't complain about my husband. I am very private. We talk and connect intellectually, we share same kind of humor, we check in with eachother. It's friendship more than anything else.