Hey, S.R! It’s meant to sound like satire but it is not. Looking at the whole situation from a different angle helps me going. I just read your story on divorce. I can understand where you’re coming from and my story is not meant to criticize those that decided or will decide to leave. I speak from where I am standing. A mother of a two year old that will probably have to stuggle way more to raise our son mainly alone while he will get to enjoy a bachelor life again. So what I am saying is that I haven’t stayed this long (15+ years) to leave now when I actuallyneed him to contribute as a partner. Yet, as my son will grow and he’ll get to understand different things — while being securely attached to his father (fingers crossed) — I might take another look at my situation. I deserve to be happy and loved as a woman, but that has to wait for now. As regards, you did what was best for you, I am sure it wasn’t an easy one to make. I send you a big hug! You are strong and you’ll get better and better, soon! Have a fantastic year ahead!