Hey, Reef Baby - who said I won't like it? I am mature enough to own my actions so let's take a look at it. First, this man is not married. He's single, he's well rounded for his age (has a good job, a nice place, a nice car). He can potentially attract women (young and not so young too) quite easily. Did I say he is good looking and mentally sharp? Ok. So, you get the picture. Spending time online with me, a woman who can not easily have is just, something else. Of course he may want to have sex with me, I would be a child to think otherwise. But on top of sex, there's something more. We like eachother as friends. We admire one other and we enjoy each others company (even if it's only virtual). He fulfilled more needs I had on emotional side than I ever experienced in my life. We know very well what this is, and more importantly what it isn't. I hope it's clearer now.