Hey, Julie. Picture this: Would the same waiter have played along if I were making jokes about my husband? I don’t think so. He did it because my husband enabled him, and he may have thought that my husband’s behaviour was acceptable, and since he was paying and possibly, leaving a tip, he’d support him. As a woman, I felt attacked by two men who had “a moment” at my expense. How can’t this be qualified as misogynistic?