“It’s not you — it’s me.” — My husband and I work from home, so lunchtime can either mean we get a bite together or get a “quickie.” Today, we opted for the latter, which was great. But I am not here to brag. I’m writing this because I realized that years ago, I wouldn’t have been…

Keyboard comfort — my digital escape in a neurodivergent relationship. — I married a guy who just doesn’t get me emotionally. He’s a great guy, really. But when it comes to understanding my feelings, it’s like we’re speaking different languages. Then, the revelation came a couple of years ago. He’s on the spectrum. Suddenly, the emotional disconnect between us made sense…

You should probably read this. — Here we go again — the bedroom’s dead, and my mood’s buried six feet under with it. My man’s charm? Gone. Respect? Don’t remember. It’s like shadowboxing — tiring and pointless. And damn, I missed him. Not the sex, HIM. But he’s AWOL and his grumpy twin? Not my type. …

Navigating the complex recipe of modern womanhood. — This story contains spoiler alerts. Traditional expectations in modern times. The other day, my husband remarked that I wasn’t preparing fresh meals daily for our son, which deeply affected me. What mother wouldn’t desire the best for her child, including serving fresh meals daily? Yet, is it feasible or even fair to set such standards…

Life isn’t always straightforward, is it? — You’re in a marriage that’s lost its spark. Out of the blue, there’s an older man who, unexpectedly, captures your attention. You’ve got reasons galore to steer clear, but he offers an escape, a breath of fresh air. So, what do you do when the choice is between a familiar…

Should I stay or should I go? — Marriage is a dance. And kids? They change the tempo. But here’s the twist: it’s not the kids, it’s the evolving steps. Can a marriage last on parenting alone when the romance is gone? I know this from a dream. I’m here to share my thoughts but also learn from…

Growing up, I mistook my mother’s pain for narcissism. — ***Potential trigger alert It took time and understanding to recognize the profound depths of my mother’s struggle and how it shaped me into the adult I am today. I am scared. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a complex mental health condition marked by intense emotional instability, fear of abandonment, and…

Because some things are better left unsaid, especially in professional environments. — If I had a dime for every time I wished to zip my lips and swallow the key, I'd be lounging on a private island by now. Oversharing was a significant weakness, causing me a lot of trouble as a young individual both in my career and my friendships. Yet…

Office Bonds vs. Marriage Ties. — With my career taking off, I looked back and saw it wasn’t just hard work and smarts. My agreeableness with male colleagues really made a difference too. It’s no secret: women often leverage their charisma in the workplace. …