Published inHeart AffairsNice Girls Don’t Cheat — But If They Did, Here’s How They’d Do ItFirst-hand tested how-to.Feb 527Feb 527
Published inHeart AffairsHow Intermittent Reinforcement Keeps You Hooked in Manipulative Relationships.I’m the woman who thought she was finally being seen.Jan 1713Jan 1713
Published inInvisible IllnessThe Weight of Two LivesBetween a distant husband and a fading lover, I’m forced to confront the life I’m too scared to leave.Dec 31, 202420Dec 31, 202420
Published inThe ViragoBoys Will Be Boys, but Women Will Be SlutsAn open letter to (some) male readers regarding how we look at infidelity from a gender perspective.Dec 15, 202438Dec 15, 202438
Published inAge of EmpathyWhy I Stayed, Why I St(r)ayed, and Why I’m Still Lost.The emotional cost of staying and the risks of leavingDec 12, 202427Dec 12, 202427
Published inHeart AffairsWhy My Husband Should Write a Thank-You Note to My Affair Partner“We are all going to have two or three relationships in our lifetime. Some of us will do it with the same person.” — Esther PerelDec 2, 202485Dec 2, 202485
Published inHeart Affairs5 Data-Driven Lessons Awkward Experiments Taught Me About MarriageWhat happens when you turn your marriage into a science experiment? I found out the hard way.Nov 28, 20244Nov 28, 20244
Published inHeart AffairsThe Hormones Made Me Do It.How Dopamine (and Friends) Got Me Into an Affair and Taught Me a Lot About Marriage.Oct 24, 202425Oct 24, 202425
Published inHeart AffairsAnxious Attachment and Affairs — How Infidelity Helped Me Understand My Own Emotional NeedsTwenty years is a long time to be with someone, especially when you’re wired like me — anxiously preoccupied, constantly seeking…Oct 15, 202416Oct 15, 202416
Published inHeart AffairsWhen Infidelity Feels Like Self-CareThe ROI on a plane ticket beats months of therapy, hands down.Oct 7, 202431Oct 7, 202431
