Published inThe ViragoBoys Will Be Boys, but Women Will Be SlutsAn open letter to (some) male readers regarding how we look at infidelity from a gender perspective.5d ago265d ago26
Published inAge of EmpathyWhy I Stayed, Why I St(r)ayed, and Why I’m Still Lost.The emotional cost of staying and the risks of leavingDec 126Dec 126
Published inHeart AffairsWhy My Husband Should Write a Thank-You Note to My Affair Partner“We are all going to have two or three relationships in our lifetime. Some of us will do it with the same person.” — Esther PerelDec 268Dec 268
Published inHeart Affairs5 Data-Driven Lessons Awkward Experiments Taught Me About MarriageWhat happens when you turn your marriage into a science experiment? I found out the hard way.Nov 283Nov 283
Published inHeart AffairsThe Hormones Made Me Do It.How Dopamine (and Friends) Got Me Into an Affair and Taught Me a Lot About Marriage.Oct 2424Oct 2424
Published inHeart AffairsAnxious Attachment and Affairs — How Infidelity Helped Me Understand My Own Emotional NeedsTwenty years is a long time to be with someone, especially when you’re wired like me — anxiously preoccupied, constantly seeking…Oct 1516Oct 1516
Published inHeart AffairsWhen Infidelity Feels Like Self-CareThe ROI on a plane ticket beats months of therapy, hands down.Oct 731Oct 731
Published inHeart AffairsSplit in Two — How an Affair Can Light Up What’s MissingUsing two relationships to make one whole.Sep 3011Sep 3011
Can We Build the Perfect Man Like a Puzzle?How to find your happiness from bits and pieces.Sep 76Sep 76
Published inLife fusionFeeding Birds Taught Me How to Break the Cycle of Emotional UnavailabilityA lesson from real life.Aug 192Aug 192
